پدیدارشناسی خودافشایی مادران مطلقه در مورد مسائل مربوط به طلاق نزد فرزندان

نوع مقاله : مقاله پژوهشی

نویسندگان

1 گروه مشاوره، واحد اهواز، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، اهواز، ایران

2 استادیار گروه مشاوره، واحد اهواز، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، اهواز، ایران

3 گروه روانشناسی و مشاوره، دانشکده علوم انسانی، دانشگاه اراک، اراک

10.22034/aftj.2023.379056.1883

چکیده

هدف: هدف از پژوهش حاضر بررسی تجربه خود افشایی مادران مطلقه پیرامون مسئله طلاق نزد فرزندان می­باشد. روش پژوهش: در این پژوهش کیفی، مصاحبه عمیق نیمه ساختار یافته با یک نمونه هدفمند شامل22 مادر مطلقه دارای حداقل یک فرزند 10 تا 38 ساله انجام شد. تحلیل داده­ها به روش کلایزی منجر به کشف 2 طبقه اصلی، موضوعات خودافشایی و عوامل تأثیرگذار بر آن گردید. یافته‌ها: از جمله موضوعات مهم مطرح شده شامل: بیان علت طلاق، تصمیم­گیری در مورد طلاق قریب الوقوع و مشکلات ایجاد شده بعد از طلاق، و برخی از عوامل تأثیرگذار بر این خودافشایی­ها شامل سن، جنس فرزند و باور مادر بود. نتایج نشان می­دهد که استرس­های مربوط به طلاق، مادران را جهت خودافشایی منفی نزد فرزندان مستعد­تر می­کند. نتیجه‌گیری: از این رو توجه بیشتر مادران به چگونگی وقوع این پدیده در تعاملات خود با فرزندان و استفاده از خدمات مشاوره تخصصی می­تواند پیامد­های منفی طلاق را کاهش دهد.

کلیدواژه‌ها

موضوعات


عنوان مقاله [English]

The Phenomenology of Sensitive Mother-to-Children Disclosure of Divorce Concerns

نویسندگان [English]

  • Vahideh Fazilat-pour 1
  • Maryam Gholamzadeh-Jofreh 2
  • mohsen nazarifar 3
1 - PhD student, Department of Counseling, Ahvaz Branch, Islamic Azad University, Ahvaz, Iran
2 Department of Counseling/ Ahvaz Branch. Islamic Azad University.Ahvaz.Iran
3 arak
چکیده [English]

Aim: The aim of the current research is to explore the experience of self-disclosure by divorced mothers about the issue of divorce to their children. Method: In this qualitative study, a semi-structured in-depth interview was conducted with a purposive sample consisting of 22 divorced mothers with at least one child aged 10 to 38 years. Data analysis through Colaizzi's method led to the discovery of two main categories: self-disclosure topics and factors influencing them. Results: Key topics raised include: expressing the reason for the divorce, decision-making about the imminent divorce, and problems arising after the divorce. Some of the influential factors on these self-disclosures include the age and gender of the child, and the mother's beliefs. The results indicate that the stresses related to divorce make mothers more prone to negative self-disclosure towards their children. Conclusion: Therefore, greater attention by mothers to the occurrence of this phenomenon in their interactions with children and the use of specialized counseling services can reduce the negative consequences of divorce.

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

  • Divorce
  • Mother-to-Children Disclosures
  • Phenomenology
  • Disclosure
  • Children
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